In France however, there's no such thing as a dating columnist.I've been a semi-fluent French speaker since my youth, yet trying to share what I did perplexed most French, Belgian and Swiss folks I encountered. My male friends scoffed, my female friends swooned.Wait and share details about past relationships face to face to avoid any misinterpretations.Putting a line like this in your dating profile gives the impression that you’re negative and bitter which isn’t attractive.One of my biggest takeaways while exploring Western Europe for six months was a conversation I had with an Austrian couple. What struck me the most was that there isn't a word in many languages for what North Americans call "dating", and that, in fact, few cultures around the world actually "date". And how to other people get to know one another before committing, having casual sex, or something else?Within a few minutes of meeting in an Irish pub, the lady of the couple asked, "So, is dating a construct of Hollywood? These were the most pressing questions my friends back home wanted to know, so I went out in discovery of answers.
First, I had to come up with a way to describe what I do for a living.
You're just bumping the naughty bits, and that's why we North Americans have so many, varied terms for what is essentially a no strings attached sexual relationship. So let's call dating what it really is: a way to get to know a complete stranger to see if they're a possible romantic partner for the long haul.
There's a ridiculous amount of social pressure in North America to have sex, for men to have "more" partners, and for women to detach emotionally and make it "okay". It isn't an excuse to 'test the merchandise', or 'see how I feel in six months', or even, 'give him a taste'.
Time to clean up those dating profiles and avoid these 10 examples of what not to say and why. Use this space for describing your personality and interests instead.
Putting chat up lines in your personal is a cardinal sin when it comes to online dating.